Two ways in
The Read is a structured assessment of compatibility between you and someone specific. You can come alone. The other person doesn't need to take part, or know.
You bring the situation and what you know about both of you. What comes back is honest: where the fit is real, where the friction lives, and what each would cost to carry.
The Work is ongoing sessions for couples who are together and want to stay that way well. Not crisis repair. Maintenance and depth: how each of you attaches, where you predictably collide, and what keeps a good thing good.
Who this is for
You're dating someone seriously and want clarity before you spend years finding out. You're engaged and want to know what you're walking into. You've been together a long time, nothing is exactly wrong, and you'd like it to be better. Or you keep choosing the same shape of person and want to understand why.
Life is short, and expensive in the currencies that matter. Time. Attention. Hope.
What happens
This is not fortune-telling, and it is not a jury. It's a disciplined look at how two people love, protect, reach, and fight — and whether those shapes fit.
For the Read: you bring the situation in a 90-minute session. What comes back is a clear picture you can act on, either way.
For couples work: 60 or 90 minutes with both of you, built around what's actually happening between you rather than a curriculum.
Every yes to the wrong person is a no to the right one. A clear read sets you free early — to invest fully where the fit is true, or to walk while walking is still cheap.
Time and cost
Sessions are by video, wherever you are. If the price is the only thing between you and the work, write to me.
What this isn't
No diagnosis. No clinical record. No insurance. This also isn't the room for a relationship in acute crisis — active abuse, untreated addiction, or anything that needs clinical care. If that's where you are, I'll say so directly and point you toward the right help.
Begin
Tell me about the person, the question, and where things stand. No pressure. If it isn't a fit, I'll say so and point you somewhere better.